Wednesday, July 2, 2014

NOT 120 BEST THINGS TO DO THIS SUMMER

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Summer is so full of promise. 
 
We begin to harvest fresh veggies from the garden.  We feel the freedom to set aside some of the book work and get outside for some exploring.  We barbeque just about anything we can get our hands on-- meat, zucchinis, peaches because really everything just seems to taste better and more summery that way, right? 
 
 
S U M M E R !
 
 
But, can I be honest?  Summer is also a little stressful to me.  I mean there is so much we could be doing that I have this fear that I am going to miss something.  And of course, that will ruin everyone's childhood.  And it will be all my fault. 
 
Do you see varying lists everywhere entitled "The 120 Best Things to Do This Summer So That Your Kids Don't Grow up Deprived and Ruined."  Well, that last part may not be an actual article title, but it does seem to be implied.
 
This is NOT that post.   
 
The truth is, I can't do the 120 Best Things this summer.  I can't do the Best 100.  I probably can't even muster up the Best 50. 
 
This mama is going to chose to be happy with a handful of accomplishments that my kids help me dream up.  How about you? 
 
 
 

 
 
 
This is what we are trying this year-- A Summer Fun list.  It's basically just a bunch of sticky notes with handwritten ideas slapped onto our whiteboard.  It's things we want to do.  The ideas get added and swapped, like they swapped hiking for Thrifty Ice Cream-- no sweat off my brow (literally!).   
 
The girls are encouraged to add to the list as they think of new ideas.  The only thing I ask them to remember is that we have not won the lottery.  Enough said about that.
 
The list has actually grown quite a bit since this photo was taken.
 
 
  
 
The ever changing list includes:
 
 
 
Mama Read Aloud
 
Break dance/ Dance party
 
Rock Painting
 
Girlfriend Days
 
Water Gun Fight
 
Family Camp In
 
Thrify Ice Cream
 
Children's Museum
 
Eat Dinner Blindfolded
 
Go Out To Breakfast
 
S'Mores by Firepit
 
Go To The Beach
 
Tricycle Race
 
Park Days with Friends
 
Kayak on Lake
 
Explode Mentos in Diet Soda
 
Family Tea Party
 
Picnic at Park
 
Pixi Woods
 
 
 
 
 
We've just begun to tackle a few:
 
 
 
One of my favorite summer treats-- going for Thrify ice cream!
It used to be just 15 cents a scoop when I was a girl.  It's still a pretty good deal.
  
 
One of the girls favorites-- going out for breakfast.  Yes, we seem to like to eat.
But there is something about a stack
of pancakes and choice of syrups that seems bigger than life somehow.  Yum! 
 
 
Girlfriend days give the older girls the opportunity to visit with their special friends.
The first one included making homemade Frappuchino coffees and painting masterpieces together.
 
 
 
 
 
 
How are you going to keep it simple and fun this summer?
 
Happy Summer friends!
 
 

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

MOMMY GRACE








  
“Being a full-time mother is one of the highest
salaried jobs…since the payment is pure love.” 

– Mildred B. Vermont


 

Motherhood can be full of doubts. 
 
We question our abilities.  We easily identify our failures-- especially if we have a rare moment alone (like that 30 seconds in the shower between pressing childhood questions hollered through the door crack about math flashcards and grilled cheese sandwiches or as we quickly fall asleep at night).
 
Any moment of quiet reminds us how much we need mommy grace.
  
 





We wish we were more patient, more kind, more... how about all of 1 Corinthians 13?  It's our continual prayer and meditation. 

We'd like to feel more confident.  In ourselves; in our plans; in our goals.  Maybe if you are like me, you started out wanting to get through motherhood without making any mistakes.  Ha!  Well, welcome back to the real world where we find ourselves waffling between our failed efforts and seeking our good and gracious God. 
 
Each day we learn to count more on His grace and less on ourselves.  And He leads.

 
 
"He... shall gently lead those
that are with young." 
-Isaiah 40:11







We desperately want to keep our kiddos safe from every kind of danger.  And thanks to the ever present help of Facebook, we learn there are new potential dangers to fear about every two weeks!  Seriously, secondary drowning?  Thanks for that! 

But we are only human. 

We do our best to make good choices, but we are pretty sure that we can singlehandedly ruin our children's future with any misstep-- maybe they really should know more Latin; oh dear, they've never built their own telescopes and why do they have that blank look on their face when I ask them to spell something we have covered three times this week?

In fact, we give ourselves a lot of credit for the potential of ruining these people we are so carefully trying to bring up.  Why is that?  

 
"Every day of my life was recorded in your book.
Every moment was laid out
before a single day had passed."
- Psalm 139:13-16







Even when we do something with or for our children, we always see that we could do more.  Or feel that we should do more.

We pray, then we fail. 

We work and then we fail.   

And at times we think ourselves very poor choices for this very important job.

But maybe we were not chosen to do this job because we'd be good at it.  Maybe we were chosen to do it so that we could show these little people where fallen people are to look for help...

 
 "I look up to the hills.
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord.
He is the Maker of heaven and earth.
He won't let your foot slip.
He who watches over you won't get tired.
In fact, he who watches over Israel won't get tired
or go to sleep."
-Psalm 121:1-4






Even though we see all the "oops" moments, children seem to see their mommies through love colored glasses.

Each child thinks their mother is the best mother in the entire world. 

It's God's kindness to mothers. 

It's mommy grace.     






I am sure you have all seen this video of moms being interviewed about being mothers (how they see themselves), followed by their children being interviewed.  It was amazing to hear how their children viewed them. 

It is really worth the watch.  Even a second watch. 


WHAT KID'S REALLY THINK OF THIER MOMMIES


Praise to the One who covers us with His love. 


May you enjoy mommy grace! 









"I prayed for this boy, and the Lord has given me what I asked of Him. So I have given him to the Lord. He is given to the Lord as long as he lives."- 1 Samuel 1:27-28 

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This Mother's Day I asked my hubby to take photos of me with my girls.  I find that I rarely do that!   :)

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

BULLFROGS AND BUTTERFLIES {summer school}




 
 


Big smiles-- last photo with Hailey's baby front tooth!  She's getting to be a big girl.
 
 
It's that time again.  Sunny weather and time for some fresh new lessons! 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
Do any of you remember the song, Bullfrogs and Butterflies?  Remembering that song and wanting to teach it to the kids inspired this sunny day lesson. 
 
 
 
"Bullfrogs and Butterflies
We've both been born again!
Bullfrogs and Butterflies
We've both been born again!"
 
 
 

Singing "Bullfrogs and Butterflies" with our sisters and cousins!



The life cycle of the butterfly always makes an interesting lesson for little ones.  Making it edible adds to the fun. 

But it is also a great chance to talk about what it means to be born again




Edible Butterfly life cycle- Egg (mini marshmallow), Larve (gummy worm),
Pupa (Tootsie roll), Butterfly (cookie)



Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you,
no one can see the kingdom of God
unless they are born again." 
~John 3:3




To be "born again" is to have a spiritual rebirth!  The Jews thought the promise of salvation was physical and came from being born of the "seed" of Abraham.  But Jesus explained the promise of salvation is actually through a spiritual "seed" which is by faith in Him.   





Colorful wings
 
 
 
We go through a change when we come to faith in Christ that makes us as different from our old selves as a caterpillar is from a butterfly. 
 
 
 

Reading about the Monarch-- hey look, that looks about where Santa Cruz is located.



Sometimes we can get a little hung up on theology and wonder if we can be saved.  For that reason, I love sharing this verse with young ones as well:


 
"All that the Father gives Me
will come to Me, and the one
who comes to Me I will by no
means cast out." 
~John 6:37



That language "by no means" sounds a lot like "no way, not ever, no way, Jose!"  And that's how the kids like to remember it.  ;) 

If we come to Christ, He will not cast us out.  "No way, Jose!"
 



Butterfly Stages free printables by MamaMiss



We did the school work of learning the names of the stages.  And we may refer to Tootsie Rolls as "Pupas" or "Chrysalises" from now on, but it was loads of fun. 

Big kids took a few minutes to join in, which always makes it more entertaining for the littles. 




Thanks for playing along, big kids.  I give you a big thumbs up!


I also  thought it would be fun to have the girls drink like butterflies from "flowers" with looooong tongues. 



Butterflies drink nectar or pollen from flowers from their proboscis (that works like a long straw).



Some left over dollar store plates and cups did the trick.  We always seem to have extra pink plates and cups around here.  I glued the cups to the plates the night before to avoid spills.  





Like this-- yum!


It was Toadally cool!  
    
 

Bullfrogs and Butterflies...  Joshie and Sarah Mae are sweet cousin buddies.




May you be blessed,






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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

CELEBRATING SIX!






 
 
 
April is a busy birthday month for our family.  Add to that two bouts with flu symptoms, an emergency dog surgery, planning and hosting Easter and a handful of other pressing issues, and I found myself and our family-- tired.
 
So what could we do to celebrate our little Hailey who was just turning six as well as minister to the rest of the family?  How about a quiet afternoon at the park?
 
 
 
 
 
We packed up Sarah's canopy, a few blankets and pillows, some read alouds, milk and Hailey's birthday donuts (for some reason we always do donuts instead of cake) and we were off!
 
 
 
 
 
Hailey felt like a little princess in her fancy canopy house which pleased all of us.  It is so fun to celebrate our little (gulp) six year old punkin'.
 
 
 
 
 
Hailey and all of her girls (pronounced "ge-als").  Sister love...  there's nothing like it.
 
 
 
 
 
It's amazing how much fun little ones can have with bubbles or a croquet set in a park setting.  I love park days.  The phone gets left in the car and the household duties get left at home.  I get just as much enjoyment out of quietly watching the girls as the girls get from running and playing.
 
 





 
 
 








 
"And he said unto them,
Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place,
and rest a while..."
 
~Mark 6:31



May you have a restful day!

 
 
 
 



Thursday, April 24, 2014

SPRING AND EASTER {just photos}







Sarah Mae helping prepare for Easter dinner with her decorated cookie.
 

The cookie decorating crew!
 

Uh oh- why does this one look dead?!  Maybe butterflies for eyes look too much
like X's.  :)
 
 
In the back yard to minimize the mess!
 
 
Ta-da!  Lots of cookies and treats all ready for Easter Sunday!
 
 
My baby sister came into town with my cute nephew, Oliver Thomas.  We all sure enjoyed
having a baby to... baby!
 
 
That's right.  He had lots of work to do.
 
 
Simple roses from the garden in mason jars dressed the tables.
 
 
My cute baby sissy, Dale with her darling new glasses.  Love them!
 

Faith (um... she just turned 17.  No way!) and little Hailey at the front door.
 

Let's find a seat and eat!
 

Josh and Sarah forming straw designs.
 

Homemade lamb cake by Faith and the finished cookies were a few of the dessert options.
 

Little kids table!  They make it look fun.
 
 
My niece, Katelyn.  Yep, she's as sweet as she looks.
 

My cute sister Liz, and her hubby, Sven with baby Judah on the monitor app.
 
 

Mmmm... lots of food!  So thankful for everyone's help!
 
 
My sweet mom and step dad, Ray.


And-- cutest for last.  My adorable hubby dishing up the goods!



 
Hope you had a blessed Resurrection Day!
 
"I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live,
even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die." 
~ John 11:25-26